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# 3003 Open 24 Hours?
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Q. Can Hatoras Nedorim (an act of absolution of wows done in front of a court of three people) be done at night after Maariv?
A. Shulchan Aruch (Y.D. 228: 3), Rambam (H. Shavuos 6: 6), rule that Hatoras Nedorim can be done at night. Nitei Gavriel (Rosh Hashana 17: 6) maintains that if one can't do Hatoras Nedorim on Erev Rosh Hashana, he may do it on the night before.
However, some maintain that in the onset, it should be done during the day, as we are careful to recite Kol Nidrei before the sh'kiah (Kol Nidrei p. 781).
Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a position is similar.
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Posted 1/8/2021 12:31 PM |
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#3002 Milk of Human Kindness?
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Q. An individual who was always careful and machmir (stringent) to eat only products of Cholov Yisroel, but due to the fact that he became unemployed during the pandemic crisis he can't afford the high prices of these products and needs to at least until times get better to eat Cholov Akum. Does he have to do Hatoras Nedorim (an act of absolution of wows done in front of a court)?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that it is better if he does Hattoras Nedorim.
However, his Rabbi and friends should try to help him, guide and counsel him how to receive economic relief so he can keep consuming only Cholov Yisroel.
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Posted 1/8/2021 12:25 PM |
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# 3001 Tough Answers to Tough Shailes
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Q. My neighbors father lost recently r'l his wife and a son to the covid curse. He became very depressed and is at a high risk of ending his own life. He was placed in a psychiatric hospital by his children, where he is kept mostly drugged and barely conscious. He can answer simple questions, but really has no great self awareness.
Due to the fact that he was always very observant and careful with keeping mitzvos and never lost one day of putting tefilin, they are asking this shaila. Is it proper that in the morning before he is given his daily drugs, they should be postponed a bit, so after being cleaned and changed, he can have his frum caregiver put on tefilin on him and read shema with him. Is that correct?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that if when he is not under the influence of the powerful drugs, he can stay properly clean, he also is also aware of what he is doing and is being kept safe, it is correct to avoid his drugs under strict supervision for the short time it takes to don tefilin and recite shema. The above should be authorized by the pertinent medical authorities.'
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Posted 1/7/2021 10:26 PM |
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# 3000 The Early Late Torah
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Q. Should one go to sleep early, at the expense of learning Torah, in order to wake up early and be from the asara rishonim the next day? (He will learn before Shacharis, but maybe learning more at night is a bigger mitzvah, and maybe one shouldn't push off a mitzvah and should rather learn as much as possible at night?)
A. Horav
Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that since this type of question
depends on other personal issues, such as the quality of learning and
remembering at different times of the day or the nature of the
material being learned, as well as the personal awareness changing
daily condition etc. there is no straight forward answer to this
question.
A
competent Rabbi familiar with the individual and his situation and
environment should be consulted.
The
Rov compared this shaila to the Talmud's unresolved question
(Zevachim 91a) of what has priority; todir (a constant or everyday
mitzva) as compared to mekudash (one of higher holiness). Rambam (H.
Temidim Umusafim 9: 2), rules that one should follow his personal
need or desire.
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Posted 1/7/2021 10:11 PM |
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# 2999 Unmask the Mask
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Q. Is it permitted to go out on Shabbos with two masks, one for me and one for my friend whose Rav does not allow him to go out with a mask on Shabbos but will be attending a shul where they require it?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that one should avoid wearing two masks simultaneously, just for the purpose of taking it to shul on behalf of someone that does not wear it where there is no eruv. This is due that it is unusual and unnecessary to do so and is therefore not considered a 'malbush' or a piece of clothing one can wear in a public domain during Shabbos, as explained in question 2640.
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Posted 1/6/2021 3:10 PM |
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# 2998 Rise to be First or to the Sunrise?
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Q. Is it better to be from the asara rishonim or to daven vasikin (but not possible to be from the first ten in the vasikin minyan, only in a regular minyan)?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that it is preferred to daven vasikin (at sunrise), than being from the first ten, when there is no better choice.
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Posted 1/6/2021 2:54 PM |
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# 2997 Support The Mask
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Q. There is now available a Face Mask Inner Support. It holds up the mask fabric around the mouth to create more breathing space when a mask is put on face. It is basically a concave plastic frame, that separates the mask from the face, thus providing more space for comfortable breathing and talking. It is washable and reusable. Can one wear it together with the mask on Shabbat when there is no Eiruv?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that since it is used together with a mask that one is allowed to wear on Shabbos. as explained in question 2640, one is also allowed to wear it.
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Posted 1/6/2021 2:32 PM |
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# 2996 A Gut'n Erev Shabbos?
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Q. Can one wish on Shabbos morning after davening a 'Gut Shabbos,' or is that improper? I have seen some people answer back, 'A Gutn Erev Shabbos' as if the salute they received was incorrect.
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that you may already wish a gut Shabbos on Friday morning, as the posuk says (Shemos 16: 5); 'Vehoyo bayom hashishi veheichinu es asher yoviu. And it shall be on the sixth day as they prepare what they will bring.' Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 250: 1), rules from Talmud (Shabbos 117: 2), that the preparations for Shabbos begin already on Friday early morning. That seems to have been also the minhag of Mori Verabi Horav Moshe Feinstein zt'l, (See Mekadshei Shevii p. 26).
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Posted 1/6/2021 2:29 PM |
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# 2995 Say It, Don't Spray It
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A new liquid product that can be sprayed onto cloth face masks is about to become available. The spray coating using electrostatic charges, captures COVID-19 molecules on the surface of the mask, preventing them from being inhaled into the lungs or exhaled into the environment. This greatly increases the effective protection of the masks. Can a mask be sprayed on Shabbat?
A. On question 2220 we wrote; "Poskim permit using during Shabbos suntan and insect repellent liquids, oils and lotions, when they are thin, of low viscosity, and of flowing consistency. They also should not be for medicinal use. (Piskei Teshuvos 327: 1).
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it is permitted to spray repellent on clothing also, even if it has some aroma, since the main intention is not to impart fragrance, but to repel insects." See also question 1770.
However, regarding the spray in question, Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that one should avoid spraying the mask during Shabbos as the prohibition of 'tikun mana' or changing and fixing an object may be involved, since the intention is indeed to make the mask a better type of filter.
The Rov added that a nurse or one attending several patients, may spray on one self and clothing with disinfectant spray, to avoid carrying viruses from one patient to another.
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Posted 1/6/2021 2:23 PM |
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# 2994 Shoelaces Knotty Issues
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Q. Why do people tie their shoelaces on Shabbat when they are wet as when it rains or they walked on snow. Is that not a case of schita or squeezing out the water absorbed in the shoelaces?
Although, one may argue that this is a case of eino miskavein or not having any intent on squeezing out the water, but it is clearly a certainty that it will happen (psik reisha) and also he is glad to be wearing shoelaces that are at least not soaking in water (nicha lei), so why is it not prohibited?
A. Shoelaces have historically been made of materials like leather, hemp, or cotton—typical rope making materials. However, advances in the production of synthetic fibers like nylon and polyester and elastics have made a variety of shoelaces possible. Modern shoelaces often incorporate various synthetic fibers. (From Wikipedia).
Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is since it is likely or at least possible that the shoelaces involved may be made or contain synthetic fibers that do not absorb water, it is not a certainty or a p'sik reisha that one will be squeezing water when tying them.
When the above is not the case, the Rov added, that one should indeed be careful to tie them lightly, avoiding possible s'chita.
To also avoid other shailos as tying knots on Shabbos, it may be preferable to use shoes using Velcro or other types of modern elastic ties.
One may add that this type of squeezing is likely considered to be an unusual way of s'chita, and therefore one may be more lenient when there is no intention or need to dry the shoelaces, since they will likely become soon wet again.
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Posted 1/1/2021 1:24 PM |
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# 2993 Uncovering the Uncovered
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Q. On question 2969 regarding if one can use olive oil that was left uncovered overnight for lighting the Chanuka menorah, and Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that after the fact, one can use it. Now, many have a tradition that they fill the cups of the menorah with oil, and then after enough time has elapsed, they turn off the lights and save the oil for tomorrow. Would not that make that leftover oil on the menorah overnight disqualified at least lechatchila (on the onset)?
A. In a Prior question 682, the Rov was more lenient and ruled that one can you use oil for Chanuka lighting that was left uncovered overnight for a number of reasons. Firstly Poskim disagree whether in our days we should discard certain liquids that were left uncovered or Mashkim Megulim. The main reason for their prohibition is the possibility of their contamination by poisonous snakes (Avoda Zara 30a, Chulin 9b) and since that rarely occurs in our populated cities, we are lenient (Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 116:1, Mishna Berura 160: 23.) However, some Poskim do remain stringent (Pri Chodosh and Pri Toar, quoted by Birkei Yosef and Aruch ha-Shulchan Y.D. 116:1.) There are other issues of ruach ra'ah or a spirit of impurity involved in liquids left uncovered .
It is important to know that when Mashkim Megulim are prohibited they may be so even when left uncovered and unsupervised for a short time, not only overnight.
Poskim also differ if prohibited or non-kosher oil can be used for Chanuka lights and many are lenient (Sdei Chemed – M. Chanuka 14, Kaf Hachaim 673: 11, Beis Shlomo O.H. 10: 108). Others are stringent (Sefer Hachaim quoted by Daas Torah 673).
However the main reason that oil left uncovered is undoubtedly permitted is that there is no Mashkim Megulim issue on oil, since snakes don’t drink from it (Chulin 49b, Bais Yosef Y.D. 116, Yemei Chanuka p. 71).
The Rov further added, that once it was placed in the menorah and lighted, it is not considered liquid food and therefore not affected.
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Posted 1/1/2021 1:13 PM |
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# 2992 Good or Early?
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Q. (Re question 2981, regarding if one should leave even before the start of davening to wake someone up (chessed) if requested to wake them at a certain time. To what we answered; 'The proper procedure is to ask someone else, who is not as careful to be part of the first ten, to wake him up, or just get him an alarm clock).'
Could the Rav please explain why the mitzvah of chessed (goodness) would not override asara rishonim?
A. Actually it could override. Sheilas Rav (p. 189) quotes Horav Chaim Kanievsky's Shlit'a ruling in the following case. Someone going to join a minyan in which he will be one of the first ten of many that will join after, thus becoming able to receive a great reward. Then on his way he encounters a small place with only nine people who are urgently looking for a tenth. Should he better join the small minyan, although there will not be any others that he can share in their reward or continue to the large minyan. The Rov ruled that chessed indeed overrides, and he should stay with the small minyan he completed.
However, as mentioned, when he can have someone else or an alarm clock doing that awakening and it becomes unnecessary, then he should be one of the first ten. (See prior question 2991 on the importance of being one of the first ten)
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Posted 1/1/2021 12:59 PM |
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# 2991 Let me Tell you, first of All
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Q. (Re- questions 2976,79). Why is it so important to be part of the first ten who make up the minyan?
A. Talmud (Brochos 47b) teaches that Rabi Yehoshua ben Levi said: One should always rise early to go to the synagogue in order to have the privilege and be counted among the first ten to complete the minyan, as even if one hundred people arrive after him, he receives a reward equivalent to the reward of them all. Rabenu Yonah and Maharsho (ibid.) explain that this is due to having caused the Shechina to be present in that place. (See similar in Zohar p. Nasso, regarding the presence of the Ten Sefiros).
Shulchan Aruch and Mishna Berura (90: 14) rule that this is a requirement to be fulfilled when possible.
It is also one of the few prime mitzvos that their fruits are offered in this world, while their principal is maintained and rewarded in the world to come.
Ateres Z'kenim writes that some Tzadikim would fast on the day that they were not able to be from the first ten. Medresh Rabbo (Bamidbor 21) mentions that Yehoshua bin Nun merited his position, because he always was the first to come and set the Beis Midrash.
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Posted 1/1/2021 12:43 PM |
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# 2990 Ask about Ask One Over
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Q. A person is looking for places to eat on Shabbos is there any prohibition to tell him which families tend to have guests or which ones don't and it is better not to ask them?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that you may tell him which are the families that welcome guest for Shabbos. As far as the ones that don't, if you have to tell, just say that you believe they are unable to do so.
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Posted 1/1/2021 12:27 PM |
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# 2989 No News is Good News?
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Q. Is it proper for a gabay in a shul were they usually say a misheberach for the sick on Shabbos, to include the name of a severely sick new covid patient, if the attendants will become very distressed and sad when they hear that familiar name? Is it better, even if the family asked to mention him, in this particular case to avoid doing it on Shabbos?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller Shlit'a recommended to mention his name quietly when reciting the mi sheberach, so people will not notice and become distressed during Shabbos.
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Posted 12/31/2020 10:05 PM |
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# 2988 Accounting for Taste
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Q. Re - question 2987 above. I meant to ask on a water purification plant that prepares and serves the water to our community.
I became aware that often the workers may eat their lunch or snacks close to the water tanks, and it is likely that some crumbs of chometz could fall into the treatment tanks during Pesach. Since the water is constantly collected, treated and pumped into the system, it is not kept the twenty-four hours required for kobush and the only concern is eating the small particles of chometz themselves.
That is why there is questioning on the size of "Mashehu." Since if it applies to a particle that could be seen by the eye only, people on their homes during Pesach could filter their water, and avoid eating those particles.
A. Indeed, in the case you described, since there was no issue of "nosen ta'am," (the flavor imparted by the prohibited substance), as the prohibited chometz was not kept in the water tank for twenty-four hours to be considered "kobush" or similar to cooked, and able to impart flavor or taste, the only prohibited component would be the particle itself. As noted above, it has to be visible enough to be noticed by an ordinary eye.
Therefore, we can indeed assume that it could be easily be filtered by commonly used water filters.
In a similar case, one should indeed filter the tap water one uses during Pesach.
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Posted 12/30/2020 10:43 PM |
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# 2987 Amount to Nothing?
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Q. When we mention that chometz is prohibited 'Bemashehu,' even to the smallest amount during Pesach, does that mean that the prohibition applies to molecules of chometz too?
A. As far as when dealing with the prohibition created directly by consuming a small piece of the prohibited food, even a 'mashehu' or the smallest of parts, would have to be something that can be noticed by the common eyesight, as Poskim rule regarding insects.
However, when dealing with 'nosen ta'am' or the flavor imparted by the prohibited substance, since we are dealing with flavors (or smells). we would include even unseen particles at the molecular level.
The unique case of the chomets prohibition during Pesach, is that it applies even when mixed with "min bemino" (the same tasting substance), and therefore can not be sensed or perceived, and it is still prohibited even 'bemashehu.' That is a unique property of the prohibition of chometz during Pesach.
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Posted 12/28/2020 3:47 PM |
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# 2986 A Joy to Behold
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Q. We learned recently in the daf that there is no Meila (a korban brought when someone unlawfully benefited from Hekdesh or the holiness of the Beis Hamidash or the sacrifices therein), when benefiting only from the pleasantness of Kol, Mareh, Vereiach (voice or music, the sights and the odor), yet it is still prohibited. How then did the millions of people, men, women and children enter and the Beis Hamikdash and without doubt enjoyed the beautiful music, the incredible sights and the most pleasant smells all the Yamim Tovim there?
A. Rambam (H. Meilah ) Indeed rules as you mentioned, and adds that although there is no meila on kol, mareh, vereiach, it remains prohibited to enjoy them. It could be that the people during those holy times, were well trained to enjoy the beauty and pleasantness of the Bais Hamikdosh in a spiritual way. Concentrating on the overpowering kedusha and holiness one felt when being in the House of Hashem and feeling His presence.
It is likely that their minds were overtaken by those spiritual feeling. That kind of spiritual pleasure, simcha and joy, even when sparked from the voice or music, the sights and the odor, would have been not only permitted but also desired.
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Posted 12/28/2020 3:32 PM |
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# 2985 No Public Drinking
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Q. We B'H are celebrating after many years of trying to have children a Pidyon Habben this coming Friday afternoon that is also the Taanis of Asarah Beteves. Both my parents and in-laws are elderly and infirm. In these pandemic days they were advised by their doctors not to fast. They are also out of town, and will zoom into the pidyon with others, family and friends.
The question is, although the seuda will be on the night of Shabbat after the fast, can our parents at the very end of the pidyon, three hours before Shabbat begins, just drink a lechaim and wish brochos to all? This very emotional and meaningful bracha, would be shown to all on the wide screen by the pidyon and would greatly enhance the simcha and make them fill that they are also part of the pidyon. I feel that it is important, since after all this baby is their first grandson.
A. Horav Aharon Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that even if the occasion is so meaningful and important, one should not openly and publicly drink during a taanis.
Likely the same effect or even better, could be achieved by them saying a few well prepared emotional words and brochos. The grandfathers could even sing together an emotional niggun. That would certainly reach the hearts of all listeners.
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Posted 12/24/2020 6:22 PM |
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# 2984 Have a Merry Nittel
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Q. On the Christmas eve, for one that keeps the Nittel tradition of not learning Torah on that night but usually has a shiur on the evening, what hours exactly are the ones one should avoid learning?
A. Nitei Gavriel (Chanuka p. 398) quotes Chidushe Harim that the traditional Nittel learning prohibition applies mainly from the beginning of the night until midnight (chatzos).
Chayei Yitzchok (ibid.) mentions that some begin Nittel from the chatzos of the day, the midday of the 24th.
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Posted 12/24/2020 6:12 PM |
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