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# 4497- Ach! Don’t say No to Noach
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Q. Rov, we are Be’H doing the Brith Milah of our son this Thursday. Is it advisable and recommended to name him with the name of the Parsha, “Noach”? (We have a friend that died during the recent attacks with that name.)
A. On question 2512 regarding if one can give the name of a dear deceased grandfather named Adam to their newborn, we wrote: “Mabit (Teshuvos 1: 276) maintains that on the onset, one should not use names of individuals that were alive before Avrohom Avinu, for naming a child. The above would include Adam and Noach. (See Pischei Teshuvos 265: 6).
However, Birkei Yosef (Y.D. 265: 10) quoting Knessess Hagedola, questions that ruling, since we find Sages that were named with those ancient names, such as Binyamin bar Yefes (Brochos 33a) or Akavia ben Mahalalel (Avos 3: 1).
Nevertheless, Teshuvos Vehanhogos (1: 605), writes that he never heard of one being called Adam, although the name of his wife Chava is common. He deduces that there must be a valid reason why.
He adds, that if the name is given to honor a deceased relative and not in the name of a Biblical personage, it is permitted. He writes that some choose a name that is mentioned in the current weekly parsha, such as Noach. (This name is more common than Adam).
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it is permitted. The Rov quoted the example of Adam Baal Shem of Rofshitz, the teacher of the Baal Shem Tov and originator of the Chassidik movement. (See Meditation and Kabbala by Rav A. Kaplan)."
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that the same applies to the name of Noach. After all we have a significant number of Tadikim named Noach even in our days such as Horav Noach Weinberg zt’l, the founder of Aish HaTorah, Horav Noach Oelbaum Shlit’a and others.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:31 AM |
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# 4496- Put On your Thinking Cap
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Q. Someone who is careful during Shabbos not to even scratch his hair or ruffle his beard as a precaution for not tearing his hair similar to avoid combing.
Can he use during the very cold and windy days of winter a cap or a tight headgear, since it may also involuntarily tear some hair? How about a regular hat that is tightly placed over one’s head?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is to be lenient since you do not have any intention or benefit of tearing any hair and it is also not a necessarily (P’sik Reisha) outcome.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:21 AM |
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# 4495 - Anonymous Bonus Son
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Q. I heard today in a Shiur that Noach had actually four children. Could that be true?
A. Abarbanel (Bereishis 9: 18) mentions that he found in secular history books that claim Noach had a fourth son born to him after the Mabul and his name was Yuniku.
Abarbanel also writes that since there is no mention of this fourth son in the Torah and also in the secular books there is no mention of descendants of this son therefore there is no need to believe this to be true.
Seder Hadoros from Shalsheles Hakabalah that there was a fourt son who was rejected by his three brothers and joined Nimrod as his advisor. (from a recent Emailim BaTorah).
There are various traditions in post-biblical and Talmudic sources claiming that Noach had children other than Shem, Ham, and Yophes who were the ones born before the Deluge.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:19 AM |
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# 4494 - Rest when Your Mind is at Rest
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Q. May one say Tehillim publicly on Shabbos with a large minyan on these terrible times and recite special public own Bakoshos mentioning the names of our dear family captives?
May one daven special private requests pertaining to the terrible matzav of dear ones during Shabbos? Any special recommendations as to how to do it?
A. We recently addressed a question if one can say during Shabbos after reciting Tehilim the prayer of “Acheinu Beis Yisroel” usually said then during weekdays. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that during Shabbos it should be avoided. Although we do recite many prayers of Mi Sheberach and Tefilos in the amida asking for all different kinds of needs. Yet, it depends on the strength and force of the demand used.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:15 AM |
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# 4493 Pray Tell to who you Pray
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Q. Dear Rabbi. During the recent cruel and brutal Hamas attacks on Israel, many Arab civilians are also suffering including small children and babies. Is it correct to include them also in our Tefilot?
A. In principle all of our Tefilos and prayers are directed also to the welfare of the world, all people and nations.
The prophet Yeremiahu (29: 7) wrote from Babel “And seek the welfare of the city to which I have exiled you and pray to Hashem in its behalf; for in its prosperity you shall prosper.” Malbim, a 19th century commentator, explains that abundance comes to the Jewish community through Babel, and thus we must pray for the governments of the nations in which we live.
A similar saying is to be found In Pirkei Avos (3: 2), Rabbi Chanina teaches: “Pray for the welfare of the kingdom”
In the days of the Bais Hamikdosh the Korbonos on Succos were brought to bring protection and success for the gentile nations.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:13 AM |
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# 4492 Rain me In or Out?
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Q. One who started a seuda indoors on Sukkos or in any other Shabbos or Yom Tov, and because of rain or other sudden reason may he continue his seuda in a different house if
he had in mind to do so in the beginning and even if the rain has stopped when he goes out?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that he can.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:09 AM |
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# 4491 Your True Home?
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Q. My son Yishay is in Jerusalem, Israel. He started his 3rd year at Rabbi Portnoy's Yeshivah. Do you believe he is in danger? Should I bring him home to the states?
A. On question 4483 regarding travelling to Israel to attend a wedding for a nephew on the Thursday after Yom Tov, considering all the tragedies just happening, we wrote: “Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that in principle one should not cancel this trip. However there may likely be many different conditions and details to consider and a Posek familiar with the case should be asked.”
The Rov’s Shlit’a opinion now is that it may be better to return.
Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit’a mentioned that there are two basic singular groups in the Yeshivos in Eretz Yisroel. One concentrates and places all efforts in learning Torah as good and intense as they can, to offer relieve and save lives with the merit of their Torah learning.
Others maybe involuntarily spend much time just talking about the tragic situation they are undergoing. He recommends that the first group should remain and the second should come back.
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Posted 10/20/2023 11:00 AM |
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#4490 A Hopefully Unnecessary Shaila One Has to read
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Q. See question above. Any other security recommendations to comply with on this particular Shabbos in a Beis Hamedresh or Shul?
A. 1) Lock or secure the entrance door/s, so only people that know the combination can enter. Have someone near by available to open the door after seeing the individual who is knocking on the door. Verify that the doors close and lock after use.
2) Avoid large groups of Mispalelim entering or exiting together, as well as remaining outside of the shul and when waiting to cross the street.
3) Have a phone available in shul and also a list of emergency numbers readily available.
4) Since every institution is different, review with experts and Hatzala the steps to take in case of chas veshalom an emergency.
5) Check available fire extinguishers and emergency medical products and equipment.
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Posted 10/13/2023 12:18 PM |
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# 4489 Plod Along Alone?
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Q. Dear Rabbi can you please ask Horav Miller Shlit’a if people should avoid this Shabbos walking to shul in certain worrisome areas, due to the possible sakanah (danger) involved?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that specially during this Shabbos people should walk with company and not alone.
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Posted 10/13/2023 12:12 PM |
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# 4488 The Safe Danger
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Q. Should one join a pro-Israel demonstration during these terrible times facing a pro- Arab one, even when separated and protected by police?
A. Shulchan Aruch (Y.D. 117: 5), Rambam (H. Rotzeach Veshmiras Nefesh 12: 2) and others rule that one should avoid being in a place of danger.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it all depends on the degree of danger present, since after all we do drive cars and travel by plane, unless of course the speed or other conditions make it indeed unsafe.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:15 PM |
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# 4487 Sinking Thinking
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Q. If one eats fruits or fries that he sinks in ketchup, pepper sauce or any other similar source of flavouring liquid, does he have to wash hands ‘Netilas Yodaim’?
A. In principle we do not need to wash our hands when eating something that was dipped in or has any of the above flavouring liquids on it, based on a number of reasons. 1. The Halacha of washing our hands on foods that are dipped into liquids is in principle debatable, and many are not particular on observing this tradition.
Even according to those who keep this minhag, if the “liquid” being used as a dip is mostly other ingredients and not water, we don’t consider the item to be one of the seven required liquids, and it seems from the order of the list of ingredients that they are not more than 50% water.
Besides, even if it would be mostly water, according to many Poskim, if the water was cooked together with other items and the liquid doesn’t taste like water, it isn’t considered water. Therefore the above liquids which are basically cooked tomatoes or tomato paste cooked with water, will not be considered one of the required seven liquids, and one would not have to wash hands before eating them.
(Mishna Berurah O:H 158-20, M:B ibid 26. Shulchan Aruch Horav 158-3, Aruch Hashulchan O:CH 158-4,5, 10, Daas Torah Siman 158, Piskei Teshuvos 158-9, Sharei Habracha 1 n. 156.)
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:13 PM |
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# 4486 The Blessed Drink
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Q. Does one recite Shecheyanu on new liquor prepared from new esrogim?
A. Horav Horav Yaakov Hirshman Shlit'a explained that since the esrogim are boiled a number of times and after grinding and mixing the paste in alcohol, very little remains of the new fruit; even if one would make a Shecheyanu on the esrog, one does not do so on the liquor.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:10 PM |
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# 4485 Bracha for Aroma?
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Q. Does one recite Shecheyanu on the pleasant smell of a new fruit or flower on that year?
A..Mishna Brurah (225:16) rules that the bocho of Shechecheyanu is not recited on a fragrance, even on those fruits or flowers that are renewed each year.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:08 PM |
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# 4484 In Heavens Name?
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Q. Just like the letters Yud - Hey we are not allowed to write which is the name of G-d. Shouldn’t we also be prohibited to write Vav – Hey, after the title since it is also part of His name?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that if it is mentioned as part of Hashem’s name, it also maintains that Kedusha and Holiness.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:05 PM |
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# 4483 Joy Trip or Stumble Trip
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Q. I have a wedding for a nephew this Thursday after Yom Tov. I was planing to travel to Israel and made all the arrangements. Considering all the tragedies just happening should I better cancel the trip, or is it better to be ‘Mesameach’ and give joy the couple?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that in principle one should not cancel this trip. However there may likely be many different conditions and details to consider and a Posek familiar with the case should be asked.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:03 PM |
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# 4482 Torah or Tehilim?
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Q. What is better, to recite Tehillim for our recent Kedoshim and victims during these terrible times or to learn Torah for them and in their merit?
A. The great power of Torah learning is of course well known and the many benefits and merits it beholds is most amazing and helpful in times of crisis and need.
However, the Maharsha (Talmud Avodah Zarah 19a) teaches that reciting Tehilim causes one to fear Hashem.
Peleh Yoetz (Tehilim p. 641) adds that Tehilim has many different benefits. He concludes that, “One who routinely recitesTehilim is protected from all harm befalling his house, his family and his estate. One who wishes to attach himself to Hashem and His praises should be connected by the Sefer Tehilim.”
After all, Dovid Hamelech requested Hashem that saying Tehillim should be considered like learning Negoim and Ohalos. See Halichos Shlomo (Tefilah 8: footnote 62) and others.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that both of them are effective and helpful, however in different ways.
The great power of Torah learning as mentioned is well known.
The Rov Shlit’a added that by praising an thanking Hashem even in very difficult times, as we do in reciting Tehilim, one shows great love to Him and that results in Him loving us more back and saving us.
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Posted 10/12/2023 5:01 PM |
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# 4481 A Kiddush for Keddohim?
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Q. Someone who has been the Chassan Bereshit in his congregation for many years and he offers a kiddush on that first Shabbat, feels that this year due to the terrible tragedy still happening, he should avoid giving the kiddush. Is that a correct thing to do? Does he have to do ‘Hatarat Nedarim’? (a member of his family is missing).
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that he should offer his accustomed kiddush on Shabbos Bereishis, since Divrei Torah will be said and mitzvos in public will be performed.
At the same time they should mention the terrible tragedy that has happened and the ways to do the necessary Tikunim and resolutions we must b’n undertake to bring relief and help to the victims and their families.
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Posted 10/12/2023 4:58 PM |
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#4480 Difficult Answers to Tough Questions
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Q. I would like you to ask Rav Shlomo Miller (Shlit’a), how is it possible that Hashem should permit that on the happiest day of our calendar such great suffering and tragedies, which that they say had no equal and counterpart since the days of the Holocaust!!!
What does it all mean???
A. It is most difficult to answer this kind of question. Yet on a similar shailah (2625) regarding differences of opinions from our Gedolim and Rabbonim regarding the Heavenly reasons for the difficult covid times, and what is Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion.
To what we answered: “Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that it is a reflection of the tremendous laxity of morals in our days, especially in relation to parades and similar public displays of indecency, that just openly defy Hashem. Other Rabbonim have expressed different ideas.
After reading what Horav Chaim Kanievsky Shlit’a wrote in an exhorting message and blessing for all of us, one may add. The Rov said: “Everyone must be mechazek (strengthen) to refrain from lashon harah, rechilus, and promote sholom bais. All of us must further strengthen ourselves in the midah of humility and to be maavir al midosav (forgiving). Whoever strengthens himself in these, the merit will protect him and his family members, and not one of them will fall ill.”
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a added that in our days, there may be a message as to how many of us engage with laxity and negligence to the honor of our Torah properly and in the correct place, during the most holy day of Simchas Torah.
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Posted 10/12/2023 4:55 PM |
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# 4479 Feast or Fast Day?
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Q. Dear Rov shilt’a, I heard that some of the Roshei Yeshivos in Eretz Yisroel not only ruled to cancel all seudos of Yisru Chag, but also to fast because of the terrible tragedies that are happening. Is that really true and permitted?
A. We tried to find printed opinions on the above shailah but could not find anything yet. It seems to be from voice communication that many Poskim and Rabbonim maintain that a minimum seuda should be kept for those who have that tradition.
Yet it should be done with a very deep feeling of mourning and grieving feelings for all those who lost their lives or their dear ones and specially for all those still being kept captive as hostages. Similar to a Seuda of Avelim.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.
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Posted 10/12/2023 4:51 PM |
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# 4478 A First Last Meal II
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Q. See question (4477) above: Regarding the Seuda sources and obligation of Isru Chag (the day after Yom Tov) we usually celebrate. On this terrible year after the tragedy of all the martyrs and Kedoshim murdered viciously in Israel, is it correct to celebrate a Seuda for Isru Chag?
A. See question (4477) above also regarding the Seuda sources and obligation of the Isru Chag traditions. There seems to be many different opinions by Poskim regarding if one should avoid the traditional seuda this year due to the tragedies ans catastrophes that have occurred , or just have Bitachon and trust in Hashem and do what is usually done
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Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that a reduced or minimal seuda should be done.
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Posted 10/12/2023 4:46 PM |
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