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# 4477 A First Last Meal I ?
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Q. Is it important to celebrate Yisru Chag (the day after Yom Tov) with a special meal?
On question 3675 we were asked the following. “We often have our children and their families staying with us for Pesach and leaving the day after traveling home. Is it worth it to celebrate with them before they leave a seuda or special meal on Yisru Chag? Would that be a Seudas Mitzva?”
To what we answered. “Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 429: 1) writes that it is tradition to add a bit to the eating and drinking on Yisru Chag. It is considered as if one built the Mizbeach and sacrificed on it all Korbonos.
There are different reasons for this particular tradition. Chassam Sofer (ibid) explains that it commemorates the joy of the people who came to Yerushalaim and now after complying and enjoying so much the Yom Tov, were ready to return home. Torah Lishma (140) quotes Arizal that the Kedusha and holiness of Yom Tov is still felt on that day.
He also quotes Yerushalmi (Avoda Zarah 1: 1) that Yisru Chag is called ‘Briah Demoado’ or the child of Yom Tov (See Nitei Gavriel 22: 4).
Horav Dovid Pam’s opinion is that since after all Shulchan Aruch mentions only to add a bit to the food one eats, if the visiting children are pressed to return home, as often is, it may be better to avoid.
Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is hat one should follow the traditions of one’s family”.
See next question.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 10/9/2023 5:36 PM |
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# 4476 Five Strikes and Out?
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Q. How many times does one have to hit the Hoshanos on the floor during Hoshana Rabbah? Should one avoid doing more since it creates s great mess and people walk over them?
A. On question 1874 we were asked: “I have seen often people striking the ground with the arovos on Hoshana Rabba until most or all the leafs are gone, and creating a great mess in the shul or at home is that correct.”
To what we answered: “Mishna Berura (664: 19) quotes Arizal that one should strike the hoshanos five times on the ground followed by hitting on utensils to remove some of the leafs; not all leafs need to be removed.
Bikurei Yaakov asserts that one should hit the arava with might and indeed remove leaffs as this is a symbol to the end of the severity of the days of din and judgment.
However, Chaye Adam (153: 3) mentions that the removal of all leafs is customary by children complying with the mitzva. Mekor Chaim claims it is the minhag of the uneducated and boors.
Piskei Teshuvos (ibid. 5) further explains that the opinion of the Arizal is that none of the leafs should be removed, on the contrary, the aravos should be maintained as kosher as the ones on the lulav, with their leafs on. He adds that according to the Arizal the hoshanos should only be struck on the ground five times. The above is echoed by Kaf Hachaim (ibid. 37), Pri Megodim, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch (138: 3) and others.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that one should follow the minhogim of his family and congregation. However, the Rov advises to collect all leafs, if any were left on the ground and not to step on them as it constitutes bizui or desecration of a mitzva. (See Shharei Tzion ibid. 2).
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Posted 10/9/2023 5:23 PM |
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# 4475 The Real Travelling Sukka
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Q. See questions above. If there is an opening on top of the van that qualifies for the ‘Shiur Suka’ (minimum size of a Sukka. About 70cm. by 70 cm.), can one sitting under it, when covered by a proper Sukka mat, and while the van is traveling eat with a brocho?
A. Shulchan Aruch rules that one may seat and comply the mitzva of Sukka when it was built and placed on a moving boat, as many often did. Horav Dovid Pam Shlit’a maintains that the same would apply in our case.
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Posted 10/6/2023 6:20 PM |
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# 4474 The Still Travelling Sukka II
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Q. See question above. Are there any other requirements essential?
A. Well, you'd need to lay something (bamboo poles, e.g.) on top of the metal frame before laying the schach down, as the schach shouldn't be supported by metal. Also the height of the mechitzos from the floor should be less than three Tefachim (30 cm.) if possible.
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Posted 10/6/2023 6:15 PM |
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# 4473 The Travelling Sukka
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Q. Dear Rov. I will be traveling G-d willing during Chol Hamoed Sukkoth for over ten hours with my family, as we are visiting our parents. I have a few shailos I would like to ask the Rov, since we are careful not to eat outside the Suka even when traveling.
First question, we are using a large van that has two doors on the back. Can we open both of them, when we stop, and then while hanging a piece of cloth that qualifies as a ‘Mechitza’ (separation that qualifies as a wall) to the van’s inside, the very rear of the van used, namely the wide doors of the van itself while open and then place on top of the doors a Kosher mat for serving as Schach?
Would that be a Kosher Sukka even it is only very temporary?
A. Horav Dovid Pam Shlit’a and other Rabbanim maintain that it would be considered a Kosher Suka, and you could make a brocho when eating in it.
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Posted 10/6/2023 6:14 PM |
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# 4472 Give Sholom to the Newborn Baby?
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Q. If someone is celebrating a Sholom Zochor for a new born baby this year, when the first day Yom Tov Sukos coincides with Shabbos, should the mother bring the not yet circumcised baby to the suka to provide joy and simcha that after all is the great mitzva of Yom Tov and also for the benefit of the neshhama of the newborn?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that it could be a good idea to do so if it does not affect in any way the newborn baby.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 9/29/2023 11:03 AM |
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# 4471 A Meal Into Itself
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Q. This year (23) first day Yom Tov Sukot is on Shabbat. To avoid eating Shalosh-seudot close to the night, since we will then be eating the Seuda of Yom Tov, we usually in similar cases, following the Rav’s advice, as on Rosh Hashana, divided the seuda after musaf into two separate meals.
We ate the first part of the meal including the cholent first. Then recited Birkat Hamazon, and went outside to the street and came back and washed Netilat Yadaim again, made hamotzi on bread, ate the dessert and that was our Shalosh Seudot.
My question is that since our suka is on the driveway at the front of our house, would just walking to the street suffice to separate the two parts of the meal and be considered as two separate seudot?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that in any case, but specially in yours, one should go for a walk and wait a half an hour, between the two meals.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 9/29/2023 11:01 AM |
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# 4470 Not An Empty Nest
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Q. We keep our Suka structure the whole year in our garden. We just saw that some birds build a nest in a corner. The kids are trilled with it and I’m sure most guest will appreciate it also. Can we keep it as a decoration for the Suka?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that if you can keep the nest area clean specially from the outside, such as having a container that keeps the bird droppings separated and covered from those seating bellow in the suka, it is permitted.
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Posted 9/29/2023 10:58 AM |
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# 4469 Busy with the Busy Bee
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Q. This year we are suffering again from bees and wasps. What can we do in the Suka?
A. On question 372, on how to avoid having the wasps in the suka, anf if one can put outside food or honey that attracts them on Shabos and Yom Tov or is it prohibited as feeding animals that don’t belong to us, we wrote:
“Shulchan Aruch (O.H. 324: 11) rules that one should not feed water or food to bees on Shabbos. Mishnah Berurah (ibid. 29) explains that this applies even if the bees belong to the one feeding them. The reason being that since it is not necessary to feed them, as they usually take care of themselves, feeding them is a prohibited unnecessary effort. (Tos’ Shabbos 19a)
However, Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that since your intention in this particular case is not really to provide food for them but rather the great need of not having bees and wasps in your Sukah, it is therefore permitted.
On question 1142 regarding if one can one place on Shabbos a glass with a mixture of vinegar or wine and a little liquid detergent, to attract and trap little very bothersome fruit flies, we wrote: “Mishna Berura (316:18) rules that it is forbidden to set a trap (as a mouse trap) on Shabbos, and if an animal is trapped as he sets the device, he transgresses a biblical proscription. If it is trapped afterwards it is rabbinical prohibition. However, it is permitted to set a trap before Shabbos.
In regards to flypaper, Poskim disagree whether you are allowed to hang it on Shabbos. Some rule it is prohibited (Tal Nosson p. 172, P'ri Hagan 4: 316 – p. 369, Sdei Tzoifim – Beitza 36a – p. 438). However, Piskei Teshuvos (316: 9) quoting Ateres Moishe (1: 77) permits hanging flypaper since to begin with, a fly may not immediately be caught. Besides, flies and the like are not normally trapped for any particular use (Beminom Notzud), and he is only doing it to be rid of them (Melocho Sheino Tzricho Legufo). Other Poskim permit when in great need (Sdei Tzofim ibid. See also Chashukei Chemed – Shabbos 5a, in regards to placing food on an already set glue trap).
Migdal Dovid (39 Melochos 3: Tzad n. 124) permits placing a bottle with a narrow opening and draw bees into it with an attracting substance when needed, since in essence they can still exit the bottle. You may also argue that the holding power of detergent is not necessarily the equivalent of glue, and the flies can still escape
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Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that when in need, you can set up the mixture of an attracting substance mixed with detergent on Shabbos.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 9/29/2023 12:16 AM |
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# 4468 A Fault Confessed but Not Redressed
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Q. Dear Rabino. I have a shaila from your old country. A fellow member from the sinagoga that I take care of, is a recent good Baal Teshuva. He is married to a lady that converted and they have three young children. The problem is that he is a Cohen, so he is not allowed to be married to a giyoreth (converse woman).
If I tell him that he has to divorce her, he certainly will not keep anymore anything, and will just leave our congregation. He understands well the issue, but he just can’t divorce the mother of his three small children.
He also wants to know if during the Viduy (confession) he can say to Hashem with honesty; ‘I ask you forgiveness for the ‘cheth’ (sin) I’m still committing’? Should one confess to a sin he is unable to abandon?
A. There may be a number of uncertainties and doubts if he is actually committing a sin. Firstly many of the people converting in my native country are likely to have some Jewish origins as a significant group of ‘Marranos” or hidden Jews settled in Mexico when running from the inquisition, so at least there may be some actual doubt in regards to her being a convert (see question 4171). Besides, since he is also a Baal Teshuva and son of a family that did not keep mitzvot, he may not be a Cohen at all. It is not unusual that some individuals maintain erroneously that they are Cohanim, simply by the lack of knowledge of what is considered in Halacha a true Cohen and not just a name or similar.
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that one should indeed recite viduy in such a case, as he quoted from the Yad Haktanah.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 9/29/2023 12:12 AM |
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#4467 A Number One Shailah
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Q. Rov, I heard about a very interesting ruling of the Mishna Berura that on can enter a bathroom without taking off his kitel (white robe used by men during Yom Kippur). Could that be correct?
A. Indeed, Mishna Berura (610: 18) rules that one may enter a bathroom just to urinate while wearing his kitel.
However, Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that although bathrooms are cleaner in our days than the way they were in the days of the Mishna Berura, yet they are used now for the relief of both bodily needs and therefore one should remove his kitel before entering the facilities.
That seems to be the common custom in our times.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 9/29/2023 12:07 AM |
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# 4466 A Compassionate Answer
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Q Can one answer and say the “Yud Gimmel Middos” (Thirteen Attributes of Compassion) during ‘Elokai Netzor’ at the very end of the Amida?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that if one has said already “Yichyu Lerotzon Imrei Pi” one can recite the ‘Yud Gimmel Middos’ together with the rest of the congregants.
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Posted 9/29/2023 12:05 AM |
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# 4465 Best to Prepare
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Q. One brings his Arba’a Minim (Lulav – Etrog etc.) to shul and then goes to a friends house for the seuda. Must he leave them there or can he take them home?
A. Horav Dovid Pam Shlit’a maintains that if they will not be used on that day anymore for a friend etc., he should leave them there an pick them next day, since one should not prepare from one day Yom Tov for the next.
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Posted 9/29/2023 12:00 AM |
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# 4464 Eye Opener Shailah
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Q. Sometimes I forget to say the shema until I'm in bed with my head uncovered. So I cover myself with the blanket and say it. Do I still need to cover my eyes with my hands since the blanket is covering them?
A. Our Rabbonim maintain that you should still cover your eyes as it is the proper minhag even in a dark room or for the one who cannot see. (Yalkut Yosef p.536).
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.
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Posted 9/28/2023 11:58 PM |
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# 4463 Bless the Brake?
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Q. Kvod Harav. In our shul on Yom Kippur we take a brake after Musaf for two hours and many go home to rest. When they come back and wear the Ta’alis again, do they have to make a new bracha
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that since they exited the shul leaving the ta’alis behind for an extended time, it is different from going to the bathroom and a new brocho should be recited.
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Posted 9/28/2023 11:56 PM |
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# 4462 Meditate This Well
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Q. Kvod Harav. Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan in his book Jewish Meditation, describes a method for doing Teshuva by applying the not so commonly used methods of meditation. Does the Rav recommend it?
What is Horav Miller Shlit’a say about it?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller Shlit’ais not very familiar with this particular book, so he didn’t provide an opinion.
However, there is no question that Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan z’l was a major factor in the development of the Ba’alei Teshuva movement especially for the younger crowd.
Horav Moishe Feinstein Zt’l addressed him in one of his Teshuvos as “my friend the Rav’ (O.H. 1: 94) and many other Rabbanim recognized his great kiruv achievements in the NCSY and the close to fifty sefarim he wrote.
Altough, he was himself a Baal Teshuva and also in his beginnings served in conservative institutions, he then joined the Klausenburg Yeshiva and became close to the Rebbeh, who later suggested, after some time of learning at Yeshiva Torah Vodaas and Mir Yeshiva in Brooklyn, that he go and further his studies in Israel.
Rav Aryeh enrolled at Mir Yeshiva in Jerusalem. In 1956, he received his rabbinical ordination from Chief Rabbi Yitzchak Hertzog and also from R. Eliezer Yehudah Finkel, Rosh Yeshiva of the Mir.
Rav Kaplan zt’l died at his home of a heart attack on January 28, 1983, at the age of 48. He was buried in Har Hazeisim, Yerushalaim.
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Posted 9/27/2023 10:50 PM |
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# 4461 Feast of Reason
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Q. Rov. Does the mitzva of eating on Erev Yom Kippur mean just eating one seuda in the morning and then another before the fast begins or the Seuda Hamafsekes, or does one have to eat the complete day? If yes, does one have to eat a Kezais each time?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that if possible a person should eat as many kezaisim or olive volume pieces of bread during the day, since each one is a mitzva by itself.
However, since likely it will not be possible to eat constantly, he advises to do what other great Tzadikim also did, and that is to suck a candy as long and constant as one can on that day, as it is also considered as eating on that day.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by, Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller, Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu and Horav Kalman Ochs Shlit'a
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Posted 9/24/2023 5:11 PM |
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# 4460 Safe Light Saves
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Q. Does one have to make Teshuva during Yom Kippur for a sin commonly committed, namely leaving the light on when not needed, as when someone leaves home during the day and no one stays there, since one transgresses on the prohibition of Ba’al Tashchis, (destroying or wasting usable items)?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that although there is reason to turn off lights when not needed at all even for security, one should avoid creating a fight with a spouse or child and similar for that reason.
The Rov Shlit’a also mentioned, to consider what would the saved amounts be used for, if at all.
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Posted 9/21/2023 11:55 PM |
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# 4459 Make Your Mouth Water?
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Q. Can someone suffering from severe dry mouth, just take some water on Tzom Gedalia place it in his mouth, swivel it and then just spit it out?
A. Oruch Hashulchan (O.H. 567: 3) permits washing one’s mouth in the minor days of Taanis, if he does so while ones head is bending down and with a small amount of water. Mishna Berura (567: 11) permits in cases of great pain even on Tisha Beav. (see also Minchas Yitzchok 4: 109).
Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is similar.
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Posted 9/21/2023 11:53 PM |
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# 4458 Eat While You Can
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Q. Dear Rov, as you know, due to my severe illness I’m unable to fast on Yom Kippur. Do I still comply with the mitzva of eating on Erev Yom Kippur?
A. Nitei Gavriel (p.22 – 15: 8) quotes Sdei Chemed that this are two separate mitzvos, and one in your situation should wash and eat and enjoy the seuda of Erev Yom Kippur. He mentions that this meal may make it easier and you may be able to eat less during Yom Kippur.
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Posted 9/21/2023 11:51 PM |
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