If there is a positive word you can use, use it! For instance, it is far better to say "You're right!" than to say "You're not wrong." It's better to say "Please be on time" than to say "Please don't be late." Try "Please keep it clean" rather than "Don't make a mess." "I prefer to do xyz" works better than "I don't want to do abc." Every positive word heals both the speaker and the listener, increases cooperation and improves relationships. Use these words to give your kids a head start in their own communication skills.
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