You can start "emotional coaching" with babies - even though they don't yet understand your words. They DO understand your affect and can feel your compassion. When you see your baby is sad or upset, don't hush him up or tell him everything is okay. Instead, name his feelings: "You're not happy right now, are you?" or "You're upset, aren't you?" Right from the beginning of life your baby has a parent who is understanding, accepting and connecting. What a great way to start his journey!