As soon as a child is capable, stop treating him like he's helpless. As soon as he can make his bed, stop making it for him. As soon as he can make his lunch, have him prepare at least part of it. As soon as he can clear his plate, make sure he does. Doing things for your child that he can do himself gives him the impression that he is entitled to service and that YOU are his servant! If your motive in serving him is to convey your love, you can do it far better by developing your empathic listening skills, showing positivity and affection, and by reducing anger. Later in life your child will learn that service can be hired; love cannot.
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