The time to raise a helpful teenager is when your child is still small! Use plenty of praise to encourage little kids to help out and they'll help out for a lifetime. But teens who are suddenly asked to do these things are no longer so enthusiastic. If you find yourself with an unhelpful older child or teen, be patient! Help change his or her attitude using only positive techniques. For example, ask the youngster to clear the table. Do not do it for her and do not offer criticism or complaint. Don't argue or fight - as this will make her attitude WORSE, rather than better! When she eventually clears her plate (or whatever you asked her to do), use sincere praise ("Thank you Honey. I really appreciate it."). Be absolutely consistent with this strategy and, over time, you should see some improvement.
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