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Seventeeth day of Tammuz
Today is the Seventeenth day of Tammuz, a fast day by
Takanas HaNeviim, which is no small matter. If we look at the number 17, we
will soon realize that it is concomitantly the Gematria of each of “Oy”,
“Chait”, and “Tov”. Thus, we see that the power of the day need not only
lie in the negative, but can and must extend to the positive and good, as
well.

We typically remember that the first frightful event that happened on this
day was Moshe Rabbeinu’s breaking of the Shnei Luchos which contained the
Aseres Hadibros, as a result of the sin of the Golden Calf. If only the
people had shown enough faith to wait one more day for their venerable and
venerated leader, their happiness and dancing would have resulted in the
greatest Simchas Torah ever(!). Instead, we still feel the pain from the
torturous event.
In fact, there was one prior significant event on this fateful day which
preceded the breaking of the Luchos. The Luach Dovor B’Ito writes that the
Yona, the dove sent by Noach out of the Ark, could not find a place to land
and so returned to the Teiva (Bereishis 8:8). The obvious question is, why
would Noach bother sending the dove out without any indication whatsoever
(from Hashem directly, or otherwise) that the waters had receded? Was he
taking a stab in the dark? We may posit that Noach sensed or knew that the
day was right for renewal and joy. The fact that the dove returned
indicated to him that it was he and his family, representing all of mankind,
who were the ones not ready for this renewal. The same lesson carried
through on this date to the Golden Calf, and thereafter the subsequent
tragedies on this day in which our people’s spiritual growth was stunted
rather than cultivated.

Today and the three weeks in front of us should not be viewed as a burden to
be overcome, evidence by our expression to others to have “an easy time of
it.” Instead, it should be a meaningful and important time in which we
hope, pray and take action. Depression and despair should not be the
hallmark of these days, for they may evidence a breach or lack of faith
which is the antithesis of spiritual growth. We should learn from the gift
of gravity that Hashem has given us to always keep both feet firmly on the
ground despite the forces working against us.

It is the custom of some to recite “Tikun Chatzos” during the Three Week
period--some even in the middle of the day. We may not as yet be on this
level. However, we should remember that every day, three times daily in
Modi’im, we thank Hashem “for the goodness given to us in the evening, in
the morning, and in the afternoon.” What goodness is it that Hashem gives
us at these especially designated times? We suggest that it is Tefillah
itself. If we can conclude the Yehi Ratzon at the end of Shemone Esrei with
Kavana during these three weeks, three times a day, we will have sincerely
davened for the Beis Hamikdash and our redemption more than 60 times during
this short period! Rather than wallowing in self-pity, we will demonstrate
a renewal of our faith and have beautifully affirmed our supreme goals.
In the merit of our prayers, may we see with our own eyes the ultimate
redemption at the beginning of the short period of special thought that lies
ahead.

*Special Note Two:* One of the wonderful side benefits of the Geulah
Shelaima is described in the bracha of Hoshiva Shofteinu in Shemone Esrei
with the words "VeHoseir Mimmenu Yagon Va’Anacha--and remove from us sorrow
and groan." Some explain this to mean that at the time of Geulah we will no
longer feel the various pains associated with the Galus of the past (yagon)
--nor will we experience any such pains going forward (anacha). HaRav
Schwab, Z’tl (in the monumental Rav Schwab on Prayer (Artscroll, p.473),
explains a bit differently, as follows: "the term yagon means the grief
that one carries inside of him, while anacha is the loud sighing or moaning
that one expresses (such as ’Oy’) when the grief cannot be contained any
longer." How great will these days be! Because, as the Chofetz Chaim
explains in his introduction to the Sefer Chofetz Chaim, our Geulah Sheleima
is inextricably intertwined with our Shemiras Halashon, we intend to provide
a short daily reminder in Shemiras Halashon over the next Three Weeks. To
get a glimpse at the severity of the aveiros associated with Lashon Hora, we
look to the Chazal (recently studied in the Daf Yomi) who teach that one who
speaks and accepts Lashon Hora is fit ’to be thrown to the dogs’ (this is
derived from the juxtaposition of the Pasuk ’Lo Sisa Sheyma Shav’ with the
Pasuk ’LaKelev Tashlichun Oso’). Indeed, the Arizal comments (once again,
based upon this very juxtaposition) that the tikun for a person who speaks
Lashon Hora may be his gilgul into this world again as a dog (i.e., he is
’thrown to the dogs’ in different kind--but more horrifying--way). We can
surely conclude that *nothing*--no intellectual benefit, no feeling of
revenge, no monetary gain, no temporal joy, could ever be worth the Lashon
Hora spoken if its G-d Given consequence is ’being thrown to the dogs’ in
one extremely unpleasant way or another. On top of all that--look at all the
people who want to be saved of yagon and anacha--and who may be denied of
this wondrous benefit because of this or that inconsiderate person’s few
evil and fleeting words.
Rabbi Shimon Finkelman, Shlita writes in The Chofetz Chaim -A Daily
Companion that "One can compare Lashon Hora to toxic waste, and the laws of
Shemiras Halashon to the protective suit of people who must handle it.
Properly protected--one can save others from harm--and not hurt oneself in
the process!" Let us strengthen ourselves now and be especially vigilant to
keep out even the harmful ’second-hand Lashon Hora’--for if not now--then
when?!

*Special Note Three*: Today at Mincha we recite Sim Shalom, rather than
Shalom Rav. The reason for this is that we Lein the Torah at Mincha, and
Sim Shalom refers to the Torah and its greatness (see Shulchan Aruch, Orach
Chaim 127:2 and Rema there). HaRav Elyashiv, Shlita, rules that one should
recite Sim Shalom even if he is not able to be in Shul for Mincha, and that
women too should recite Sim Shalom on the Ta’anis.

*Special Note Four:* Please remember to give Tzedaka today on the Ta’anis
for as Chazal teach ’Igra DeTa’anisa Tzidkasa’. If you need an address--we
provide yadeliezer.org --which has been helping the poor in Eretz Yisroel
for decades with true honor and real distinction. Add the Navi’s teaching
that "Veshaveha BiTzedaka--those who return to Tzion will return with
tzedaka" to the need to give on a Ta’anis itself --and we appreciate how
much we can accomplish with some well placed funds on this very significant
day.
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Hakhel MIS
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