Our Forefathers had saintly and holy character traits. In this light, the Torah gives us a glimpse into Yaacov’s golden personality.
Lavan swindled, tricked, and lied to Yaacov, his son-in-law, for 22 years. When Yaacov finally "had enough," he took his family and left. Lavan pursued Yaacov, insulted him, and expressed a desire to kill Yaacov.
After Lavan’s verbal attack, abuse, and accusations, Yaacov "argues with Lavan." However, the text actually says "Yaacov argues in Lavan." Meaning, Yaacov’s level of annoyance was on a very low-keyed, subtle level. Instead of reacting emotionally, Yaacov presented logical and lucid points in his own defense.
Yaacov was in complete control and only slightly intensified the tone of his voice. Accordingly, only Lavan was able to perceive the minute shift in Yaacov’s demeanor, i.e., "in Lavan". If anyone else had witnessed the interaction, they would not have been able to detect any irritation in Yaacov, whatsoever!
We learn from Yaacov’s reaction that the human spirit is capable of great patience, even in the face of injustice.
May we follow the path of Yaacov Avinu and be always gentle and patient, even when we are treated unfairly. If we do so, we will be blessed with happiness, success, and serenity. [Based on the commentary of the Orech Chaim]
TODAY: Strive to keep calm under all circumstances and in all your interpersonal relationships.
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