Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud
Lesson 1
Whenever we refrain from insulting someone or from verbally causing them distress, we are fulfilling a mitzva.
Lesson 2
We are not allowed to relate lashon
hora to someone else about their relatives. For example, Suri cannot
tell Yoily’s grandparents that "Yoily hangs around with a bad crowd".
(Of course, if its for a constructive purpose, those rules would apply)
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Lashon Hora = Saying a derogatory/negative statement about someone else that is TRUE
Motzi Shaim Ra (Defamation of Character) = Saying a derogatory statement that is FALSE
About Whom is it Forbidden to Speak Lashon Hora
- Any Individual Jew - Alive or not, - adult or child, family member
(spouse, in-laws, parent, child, siblings), groups/sects of Jews,
Entire Jewish Nation
Onaas Devorim - Verbal Abuse
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These lessons are derived from a few books:
Guard your Tongue: Adapted from Choeftz Chaim by Zelig Pliskin
The Power of Words by Zelig Pliskin
Chofetz
Chaim: A Lesson a Day - The Concepts and Laws of Proper Speech Arranged
for Daily Study By Shimon Finkleman and Yitzhok Berkowitz
Purity of Speech: A short lesson on the halachot of shmirat Halashon
Chofetz Chaim - A Daily Companion: Arranged by Reb Yehuda Zev Segal