Please Say/Whisper The Words Out Loud Lesson 1 So what would be the positive approach to approval seeking? If you take an objective look at the tendency to seek approval, you will see how much someone loses out by it. When we learn to keep our major focus on more elevated motivations for what we do, we will gain in many ways.
Lesson 2 We are not allowed to praise someone when the praise implies a deficiency in another aspect of the persons character. For example, saying something like "Yoily tries so hard to understand the lesson". This isnt allowed if it is said in a manner that implies that he is not clever or has to work extra hard to understand.