Please Say/Whisper the Words out Loud Friday - October 3 Lesson 1 If you have reason to believe that someone is planning to harm you, you are allowed to inquire about that person from as many people as is necessary. This is allowed even though you risk hearing derogatory information, since your soul intention is to protect yourself.
Lesson 2 If you inquired about someone to protect yourself, and found out that the person does have ill intentions toward you, you still cannot accept this as absolute truth, even though you hear it said by many people.
Shabbat - October 4 Lesson 1 If you found out someone has intentions to harm you, even though you can protect yourself, you cannot embarrass that person or harm them in any way. You are not even allowed to feel dislike towards them. You can only protect yourself. Lesson 2 Certain individuals have a habit of constantly asking people to tell them what others have said about them (just because they are curious). Unless you are sure the information is necessary for you to know to guard yourself, don’t ask others "what did s/he say about me?"