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Halacha For Today: Tuesday, Erev Yom Kippur 5773, September 25, 2012
Halacha For Today:



Tuesday

9 Tishrei 5773; Erev Yom Kippur

September 25, 2012



Current Topic:
Review of Halachos of  Yamim Nora'im 

 

LECHEM MISHNEH: DOUBLE PORTION L'KAVOD "SHABBOS SHABBASON" (YOM KIPPUR)

 

 

Halachos for Erev Yom Kippur

1) If one forgot "Hamelech HaKadosh" in Shemona Esrei of Mincha on Erev Yom Kippur, and only realized this after completing the entire Shemona Esrei and Vidui, although the Shemona Esrei must be repeated, there is no need to repeat the Vidui again when repeating the Shemona Esrei. (See Shulchan Aruch Siman 582:1)

However, if one wants to repeat the Vidui, he/she may do so. (Ruling of Rav Shlomo Zalmen Auerbach Zatzal.)

The ideal way to perform Vidui is to itemize each and every sin that one can remember doing.

One should try and stretch out their Vidui for as long as possible, and try and do it in a heartfelt way. (See Shulchan Aruch Siman 607:2.The Vidui of the Chayei Adam (Klal 143) as well as the Vidui written by Rabbein Nissim Gaon enumerate vast lists of possible sins, which may be helpful in "jarring our memory" and remind us of the sins we may have done in the previous year.These lists are found in certain Machzorim and Sidurim as well, and can also be bought independently in Jewish book stores)

If one transgressed a certain sin (or a variation of it) many times, it isn't necessary to itemize each one; rather he/she can say "Sin X which I have transgressed countless times" or a similar verbalization.

2) It is a Biblical Mitzvah to increase the amount we eat and drink on Erev Yom Kippur.

The Talmud (Rosh Hashana 9a-b) teaches that one who eats on Erev Yom Kippur is considered as if he fasted on both Erev Yom Kippur and on Yom Kippur.

It is the minhag to have a Yom Tov Seuda on Erev Yom Kippur, as it is considered a Yom Tov because we are confident that Hashem will forgive all our sins. (See Tur Siman 604)

Women and children who have reached the age of Chinuch are also obligated in this Mitzvah of eating more on Erev Yom Kippur, according to many Poskim. (See Shu"t Ksav Sofer Siman 112 and MaHaril Hilchos Erev Yom Kippurim)

 

Halachos for Yom Kippur 


1) The following things are prohibited from sunset of Yom Kippur eve until nightfall (the emergence of three stars) after Yom Kippur :

1.Melacha (any "work" that is prohibited on Shabbos)

2.Eating

3.Drinking

4.Bathing /washing

5.Smearing lotion, soap etc.

6.Wearing leather shoes

7.Marital relations

There is a dispute amongst the Rishonim if all the aforementioned are prohibited Min HaTorah (biblically) or just eating and drinking and Melacha, while the rest are only prohibited MiDirabanan (prohibited by the sages).

Most Poskim rule that it is best to be stringent and consider them all as Min HaTorah. (See Mishna Berura Siman 611:3)

However, "Kares- the heavenly death penalty" is only meted out for eating, drinking and Melacha, according to all opinions. (Shulchan Aruch Siman 611:1)

2) Upon rising on Yom Kippur morning, Negel Vasser must be washed. However, one must be careful to only wash until the end of the joints of the hand (knuckles) and not the entire hand. (Shulchan Aruch Siman 613:2)

As you wash, have in mind that you are doing so to remove the "impure spirit" from your body, and not doing it for the pleasure of "washing" which is prohibited on Yom Kippur. (Rama ibid.)

The face may not be washed on Yom Kippur morning. (See Mishna Berura ibid. S"K 3)

It is best to be stringent and not even place a little water on the eyes, unless there is some crust near the eyes, then it may be removed with a drop of water that was placed on your finger. When doing so, care must be taken to only place the water on the immediate spot of the crust, and not on any other part of the face. (Rama Siman 613:4 and Mishna Berura S"K 9)

After using the restroom, the hands should be washed, but only until the knuckles. (Shulchan Aruch Siman 613:3)

The Kohanim may wash their entire hands before going up to "duchen- bless the congregation" as that washing isn't one of pleasure. (ibid.)


Although most contemporary Poskim allow the use of aerosol spray deodorant on Tisha B'Av if necessary to prevent sweating, this is not the case on Yom Kippur, and it is prohibited to use any kind of deodorant on Yom Kippur, even if only to prevent and/or eliminate odors. (Kitzur Hilchos Yom Tov page 110 quoted in Piskei Teshuvos Siman 614:1 footnote 3)
 

This brings us to the end of our review of the  Halachos of Yomim Noraim. On Thursday we will B'Ezras Hashem begin reviewing some Halachos of Sukkos etc.

 

גמר

חתימה

טובה 

TO ALL OF MY DEAR READERS AND TO ALL THE HOLY MEMBERS OF KLAL YISROEL!



QUESTION & ANSWER CORNER

 
Reader Submitted Questions of interest on topics related to Halachos we covered, as well as other interesting topic and Answers.
 
These Q&A are taken from the Q & A  pages on the Halacha For Today website.
 
Although the answers I give to questions are taken directly from the Sifrei HaPoskim, and aren't my own, they are  still for study purposes only, NOT for Psak Halacha.
Questions can be emailed to HalachaForToday@Gmail.com

 Question:

 

 

 

Is one permitted to take a non medicated pill ( such as a birth control pill) on a fast day without water?

Is there a difference between any fast, for example , are Tisha B'av and Yom Kippur stricter than the other fasts?

 


Answer:
 
Yes, pills taken for health reasons (even if the person is not sick) may be taken on fast days including Tisha B'Av, and if one cannot take a pill without water, the pill may be taken with as much water as necessary to get the pill down.
 
If the pill itself is good tasting, it should preferably be wrapped in a tissue before swallowing.
 
Regarding Yom Kippur, it may be more stringent.
 
(See Halichos Shlomo Bain HaMetzarim Perek 16:3 and the footnotes. See also Shu"t Shevet Haleivi Vol. 10 Siman 81:1)

For Halacha L'Ma'aseh a Rav must be consulted.
 
Practically, it can usually be taken immediately before Yom Kippur and once again immediately after Yom Kippur without messing up anything.


CHIZUK CORNER


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This section is dedicated L'Ilui Nishmos the  Telzer Rosh Yeshiva, HaRav Chaim Yaakov Stein Zatzal ,  the Mir Rosh Yeshiva, HaRav Noson Tzvi Finkel Zatzal and the Rosh Yeshiva of Torah Ohr, the great Posek HaRav Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg Zatzal.
 
 May we all strive to follow in their ways and may they be Melitzei Yosher for all of Klal Yisroel.
 
We will B'Ezras Hashem post here each day a short inspirational thought to help us all improve our lives and grow in our service of our Father in heaven, HaKadosh Baruch Hu.  
 

IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING MEANINGFUL FOR THIS SECTION, PLEASE EMAIL IT TO HalachaForToday@Gmail.com  

THANK YOU AND תזכו למצות!
 

זכר צדיקים וקדושים לברכה

 

     

 

 

 

Question:
 
When you wish somebody Gmar Chasima Tova (May you be sealed for a good year), will it help him/her?


Answer by HaRav Avigdor Miller Zatzal:

 

 

It depends on how sincerely you say it. If you're saying it as a mitzvas anashim melumada (by rote) without thinking, it's worthless.

Rather, say "Gmar chasima tova," and then when the person goes away, say it over again to yourself. You hear that? Say it over again a second time: Gmar chasima tova. Hashem listens.

You are a tzaddik if you pray for that person: If you say gmar chasima tova a second time, you're a tzaddik and it will help. Same with "Shabbat Shalom." It doesn't mean anything. Walk away and repeat it, Shabbat Shalom again. That's an achievement. 
 

 



The following was submitted by daily reader, M.M







A letter from Rebbetzin Batsheva KanievskyA"H, wife of Maran HaRav Chaim Kanievsky Shlita
 (translated from Hebrew)


Dear women and girls,

We need you to help us in prayers!

The situation in Israel is very difficult.

We are suffering terrible losses, many orphans and widows from diffrent diseases. My husband, Reb Chaim, was asked what could be the cause of all these tragedies. The Rav opened up a Gemara and said it's because of foul language

How can we correct ourselves? Only by watching what we say.

I read an article written by Rabbi Yehuda Zev Segal Zatzal from Manchester who writes:
"Never did I see a person who learned 2 Halachos of Shmiras Halashon each day,  and didn't see salvation from above,whether in children, in shiduch, in good health, parnasa or bringing up the children. Whoever promises that they will learn the Chafetz Chaim, he will be his defender in heaven. "

And he witnessed miracles that happened to people who took upon themselves Halachos every day and saw Yeshuos.
While I was reading the article a woman came in crying and said she has a number of aging daughters that are still not married. I showed her the article and immediately she said that she will learn 2 Halachos of Shmiras Halashon every day. Within three days one daughter got engaged, months later the second daughter and B'Ezras Hashem this woman saw many Yeshuos.

Like her, hundreds of girls took upon themselves the Shmiras Halashon and got married.

A diffrent story is about a woman who came to us about a year ago with great sorrow saying that she'd been married for 20 years and had no children. I advised her to learn 2 Halachos every day and B'H she conceived and now has a month old baby boy.

And another story:

A few weeks ago a woman came to me, broken and crying, and said that her mother is in the hospital with a growing tumor. She asked waht to take upon herself to help her  mother. Again I advised the whole family to learn two Haochos of Shmiras Halashon every day. Two days later she came to tell her story and what happened. She said that the entire family gathered and decided to learn two Halachos, days later they recieved a phone call from the hospital saying to come pick up the mother, the tumor is gone and she is in good health.

I hear many stories such as these.

And now, we should all take upon ourselves, bli neder, to learn two Halachos of Shmiras Halashon every day and pray with great kavana.

A prayer that comes from the heart through a holy mouth is immediately accepted by Borei Olam and prevents many troubles and tragedies, and brings Yeshua to the world. In the future, each one of us will be shown how many wonderful things we did, how maney people we saved. And thanks to  righteous women and girls, we will have the Zechus to bring Moshiach Tzidkeinu soon in our days.

Yehi Ratzon that Hashem will fulfill all of our wishes for the best,

Batsheva Kanievsky

For Zikui Harabim

Everyone  who receives this letter should try to make at least 50 copies and spread them for your own success, and you shall be blessed, and whoever exceeds that amount will be blessed directly from the mouth of Hashem.


 
 
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The following was sent in by another reader:


We loved her. We were inspired by her. We were blessed by her.

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Rebbetzin Kanievsky a"h was honorary president of Mishmeres HaSholom, an international organization that promotes shemiras halashon and interpersonal mitzvos. Mishmeres HaSholom was exceptionally close to her heart; she provided continual encouragement and invaluable advice and participated in its events.

 

 

Maran HaRav Chaim Kanievsky shlita:

"This is a special zechus that will nullify many harsh decrees and bring great yeshuos."




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