Q. When I was a kid (close to Bar Mitzva) while I was in Eitz Chaim. I made a Neder (oath) not to get married until I am 40 minimum and until I am wealthy.
How can I be matir (release me from) this Neder?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that you have to contact your Rov and have him assemble a Beis Din (court) of three people and after following the correct procedure, release you from your Neder
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit'a