Q. A woman began Bentching Licht (lighting Shabbos candles) early. Is this a Neder that her husband can annul so she can still do Melacha (work prohibited during Shabbos)?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller’s Shlit’a opinion is that she would require a proper Hatoras Nedorim done by a Beis Din of three correct people.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Dovid Pam, Horav Aharon Miller and Horav Chanoch Ehrentreu Shlit'a