Q. I made a shvua without thinking and now I need it to be nullified. What should I do?
I made a shvua saying I wouldn't do something for someone else (not my husband). I said it to make a point. I didn't really mean to make a neder. How can I undo it?
A. Horav Shlomo Miller's Shlit'a opinion is that you have to make an annulment of wows in front of a court of three Rabbis. Please consult with a competent Rabbi as to how to have this process done. He also stressed the great need for carefulness in avoiding nedarim and shevuos.
Rabbi A. Bartfeld as revised by Horav Shlomo Miller Shlit"a